He/She is cheating on you
Women and men are pretty equal in figures when it comes to cheating. But, your partner is probably not cheating. Because, 80% of the people never ever cheat even once in their lives. Women only cheat when they are not happy in their current relationship. And how to know if she is happy or not? Just see yourself. If you are happy, she is also 100% happy. If you are not, then she is not.
Do not ever dump if you only think that he/she is cheating. Only know that he/she is cheating when you have 100% prove. And, let me repeat a sentence, “80% of the people never cheat”.
You do not love your partner
Breaking up is a logical next-step. But, sometimes, it gets complex. Maybe, you do not want to break up because of some other needs (money, validation, affection, sex). Then you are shitfaced. I don’t even want to talk with you.
But, maybe you do not love him/her, and want to breakup, but still can’t, as your partner doesn’t want. But, break up still. Have some self-respect. You don’t love him/her, but still in a relationship? Wow. F*** him/her off. Now.
Again, let me repeat a sentence, “breakup if you do not love your partner”.
Your partner doesn’t love you
Yeah. Break up if he/she stops loving you—no matter how much you love her/him. Love one-sidedly, but not being in a relation.
But, you are confused. Just ask him/her
whether he/she still loves you or not. If you were truthful in the whole
relationship, you will get a true answer. And believe it.
Hey. My sentence to be repeated, “don’t stay in a relationship when you know
(not think/feel) that your partner doesn’t love you”.
You are cheating
Wow. You can even do this? Break up now if you forgot to.
Your partner doesn’t fit your values
Maybe you are a double-born Catholic and have sworn off all sex before marriage. But, you boyfriend is a bass player at a music band and bangs girls like his profession. Yeah—break up.
You are defined by your values. If your partner doesn’t fit, break up asap.
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