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He/She is cheating on you

Women and men are pretty equal in figures when it comes to cheating. But, your partner is probably not cheating. Because, 80% of the people never ever cheat even once in their lives. Women only cheat when they are not happy in their current relationship. And how to know if she is happy or not? Just see yourself. If you are happy, she is also 100% happy. If you are not, then she is not.

Do not ever dump if you only think that he/she is cheating. Only know that he/she is cheating when you have 100% prove. And, let me repeat a sentence, “80% of the people never cheat”.

You do not love your partner

Breaking up is a logical next-step. But, sometimes, it gets complex. Maybe, you do not want to break up because of some other needs (money, validation, affection, sex). Then you are shitfaced. I don’t even want to talk with you.

But, maybe you do not love him/her, and want to breakup, but still can’t, as your partner doesn’t want. But, break up still. Have some self-respect. You don’t love him/her, but still in a relationship? Wow. F*** him/her off. Now.

Again, let me repeat a sentence, “breakup if you do not love your partner”.

Your partner doesn’t love you

Yeah. Break up if he/she stops loving you—no matter how much you love her/him. Love one-sidedly, but not being in a relation.

But, you are confused. Just ask him/her whether he/she still loves you or not. If you were truthful in the whole relationship, you will get a true answer. And believe it.
Hey. My sentence to be repeated, “don’t stay in a relationship when you know (not think/feel) that your partner doesn’t love you”.

You are cheating

Wow. You can even do this? Break up now if you forgot to.

Your partner doesn’t fit your values

Maybe you are a double-born Catholic and have sworn off all sex before marriage. But, you boyfriend is a bass player at a music band and bangs girls like his profession. Yeah—break up.

You are defined by your values. If your partner doesn’t fit, break up asap.

The Romantic Stage

You love your partner too much, and he/she loves you too much too. He/she is always in your mind. And, you are always on his/her mind too! Life becomes awesome. You think you too are ‘made for each other’. You two would get married, have kids, and live happily ever after. This is the stage of romantic love. It stays for just the first 1-3 months of your relationship. Everything is perfect and okay at this time. You always like each-others company, you smile a lot. You would date regularly, text very much, and try to get closer all the time. This is the romantic love stage in your relationship.

The Committed Stage

Surprisingly, all the romance slips out of the window after a couple of months. Or, does it? You two still feel deep love for each other. You two still tease each other, and still date. Your relationship has matured—the second stage has started. This is the committed stage. Most of the times, the commitment is unspoken. But, you two feel a deep connection between each-other, though sometimes you ignore your partner, or he/she humiliates you.

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